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Sales calls don’t have to feel heavy, awkward, or transactional, especially for practitioners who genuinely care about the people they serve. There is another way to approach sales (one that feels more natural, more honest, and far more sustainable) and it starts by taking the “sales” out of the sales call altogether by learning how to sell without being salesy.
The Sales Mindset Most Health Practitioners Are Carrying
Over the years, after working with and training more than 90 health practitioners, I’ve seen the same patterns show up again and again. Not because people aren’t capable, skilled, or good at what they do, but because of the way we’ve been conditioned to think about sales in the first place. A lot of this comes from socialized programming (ideas we picked up from childhood, from culture, from traditional business models) that tell us sales is about persuasion, pressure, convincing someone to say yes, or proving that we’re worthy of being paid. And for practitioners, especially those coming from hourly, insurance-based, or institutional models of care, that mindset can feel deeply uncomfortable, even activating.
What I tend to see is not a lack of desire to grow or make money, but fear, of rejection, of charging what your work is actually worth. Fear of being seen as unethical, greedy, or “too much.” Fear of stepping into a new paradigm that doesn’t look like the one you were trained in. And underneath all of that, there’s often a question of worthiness—am I really allowed to do this?
I remember feeling this myself when I transitioned into the online space. I had colleagues telling me it wasn’t possible, that it wouldn’t work, that I couldn’t deliver results this way. Looking back now, I can see that much of that was simply fear being projected outward, but at the time, it was destabilizing. And yet, I also knew that the traditional model wasn’t sustainable for me. I loved the work, but I was exhausted, underpaid, and questioning whether I could do this for decades without burning out completely.
Why Traditional Sales Models Don’t Work for Practitioners
Traditional sales models are often built around closing deals, hitting quotas, and persuading people to buy, sometimes regardless of whether it’s actually the right fit. And if you really tune into your body when you hear words like closing, overcoming objections, or convincing, there’s often a sense of constriction that shows up in the throat, chest, and even gut.
I’ve been on the receiving end of that kind of sales approach myself, and it never felt good. It felt rushed, transactional, and disconnected. And that experience played a huge role in why I became so intentional about creating a different way of approaching sales altogether.
For practitioners, this kind of transactional approach doesn’t just feel misaligned, it often creates stress, anxiety, and a lack of connection on both sides of the conversation. It turns what could be a meaningful dialogue into a performance, and it’s one of the main reasons so many practitioners avoid sales altogether or want to learn how to sell without being salesy.
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How to How to Sell Without Being Salesy By Practicing Heart-Centered Sales
What Heart-Centered Sales Is
Heart-centered sales is not about convincing someone to buy something they don’t need. It’s not about pressure, urgency, or manipulation. At its core, it’s about understanding. Instead of approaching a sales call with the mindset of I need to make this sale, the orientation shifts to curiosity. Who is this person? What are they actually struggling with? What do they want? And just as importantly, am I the right person to support them in that? Sometimes the answer is yes, and sometimes it’s no. And both of those outcomes are successful conversations.
When the sale is approached the way of knowing how to sell without being salesy, the nervous system settles. The conversation becomes more relaxed, more honest, and more grounded. It starts to feel less like a transaction and more like two humans exploring whether there’s a true fit.
Reframing Sales Calls as Conversations
One of the biggest shifts I had to make when learning how to sell without being salesy was realizing that a sales call isn’t a performance and it isn’t about “getting the yes.” At the beginning of the call, I already don’t have the sale, and remembering that completely changes the energy of the conversation. Instead of trying to convince or prove anything, I get to show up curious and present, genuinely interested in the person on the other end of the line. When I approach sales calls this way, they stop feeling heavy or charged. They start to feel like real conversations, where both people are simply exploring whether working together actually makes sense.
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Treat the Call Like an Interview on Both Sides
I always teach that sales calls are interviews. Not just for the potential client, but for you as the practitioner too. I’m listening for alignment, not just desire. I’m paying attention to whether their goals match what I actually offer, whether I have the solution they’re looking for, and whether working together feels clean and grounded in my body.
There is nothing worse than signing the wrong client, and learning how to say “this isn’t a fit” is one of the most protective skills you can develop. When the call is framed as a mutual interview, it becomes much easier to honor that clarity.
Slow Down Enough to Actually Listen
Heart-centered sales and knowing how to sell without being salesy requires slowing the conversation down. Not listening so I can respond, fix, or sell, but listening so I can understand. What is this person really asking for? Their expectations from the process. What do they believe is possible for them right now? When I listen this way, the direction of the call becomes obvious. Alignment either reveals itself, or it doesn’t. And I don’t have to force anything to figure that out.
Let Go of Urgency and Pressure Tactics
High-pressure sales strategies might create short-term wins, but they almost always lead to buyer’s remorse. I’ve found that when pressure is removed and clarity is prioritized, people feel safer making decisions that actually serve them. The right clients don’t need to be rushed. They need space to feel into what’s true for them.
Be Willing to Say “This Isn’t a Fit”
One of the most powerful things you can do in a sales conversation is be honest when something isn’t aligned. If I don’t have the solution someone needs, or the timing isn’t right, I say that. And paradoxically, that honesty builds more trust than trying to make the sale ever could. Often, those same people come back later because they remember feeling genuinely seen and respected in the conversation. Trust compounds when you’re willing to prioritize integrity over immediate enrollment.
Focus on the Relationship, Not the Outcome
When the focus shifts away from closing the sale and toward building a real relationship, everything changes. Clients feel a more humane treatment. And when they are ready to say yes, they already know who they want to work with. This approach naturally leads to repeat enrollments, referrals, and a practice built on reputation rather than constant effort.
Hold Money and Care at the Same Time
Heart-centered sales doesn’t mean pretending money doesn’t matter. We’re running a business after all, and we care deeply about the people I serve. Both of those things get to exist at the same time. Charging well, creating profitable offers, and caring about client outcomes are not opposing forces. In my experience, they actually support each other. When the exchange feels clean, grounded, and mutual, everyone wins!
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Why This Way of How to Sell Without Being Salesy Feels Different
When you approach sales this way, it just starts to feel better in your body. There’s less anxiety, less pressure, and way more trust on both sides of the conversation. People aren’t saying yes because they felt rushed or convinced, they’re saying yes because it actually feels right for them, and that changes the whole dynamic once they’re inside the work. Over time, you end up with clients who stay longer, who feel genuinely supported, and who are excited to be there, and you also end up building a practice that doesn’t drain you or ask you to override yourself. To me, that’s really what heart-centered sales is about and learning how to sell without being salesy.
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About the Author: Michelle Rogers, ND, MSAOM, FDN-P, is a clinical mentor and founder of The WELLthy Woman™ movement. A practicing clinician since 2012, she pivoted to mentoring fellow practitioners in 2019 after experiencing her own transformation from clinic burnout to online business success. She has since guided hundreds of health professionals to build profitable online practices using her unique integration of functional medicine expertise and scalable business strategies.
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